Why do we always return back?

I read a story on Lady Gaga who on www.azcentral.com, it was shocking. She actually went back to a guy (Luc Carl)who dumped her in very funny circumstances. Strangely, he only heard she was around looking for him and he dropped the Girl, he had been dating. The abandoned lady didn't fret (why would she?). But Gaga's mother did complain. Because they had a nasty break up. I am reporting this as I saw this but see...What will happen if a man who can simply break up with a Lady because he heard a lost love came around. Is it that he regrets the long time off or he wants somethings else this time? I don't know but its time to always reconsider things before you break up. It's not nice to stay with a person who breaks up anytime he wants...or...any way, Luc! You better not break her heart this time...or you will be my next case study

What is wrong with him?

Every sign is there that he loves you, but he has never proposed to you to be his girl or wife. One of the two, well, people i met like to say that he is afraid that is why! But someone just let me on the truth, check it... it is not fear, it is simply because he is not serious, doesn't want to commit. Why? Because he doesn't know what the future holds and doesn't want that to happen. So it looks like fear. In some cases it may be that he is actually look out for some other options, so now what do you do to such a person? I don't not but lets try this...Find ways to corner him and ask him indirect questions if you want him to proceed with you. Questions like...why is that Guys are always afraid to commit to a fine lady when they see another they like...or...DO you like me?(dont try this, you will freak him out if it fear that is bothering him). Whatever, Just know that the ways I have mentioned may not work but then...lets have fun. See you

What is this name or is it game?

A Lady I once met told me this...I hope you are not interested in the name, I am in for the game alone. Well whatever the game is i wont say but how can we humans call Love a name? Then what do you call sex and love put together?
Well, I realized one thing...when you enter a relationship it is good once in a while to know whether you people are playing the game or you are in for the name and decide whether it is what you want.
Imagine asking the question - what am I to you? Go ask your girl or guy and find out what he or she will say, maybe you might then know if it is a game you are playing or love is the name. Hmm wait till I find out whether its a game she prefers or what?

Was it time to leave...

For the past three months he promised her he wont drink or become drunk. As a girl friend she could manage that a little but as a wife...with beating marks to prove he won't stop she decided something else. Next time he drinks and gets mad, she will insult the hell out of him. She was lucky that wasn't her last mistake because for the first time in their 10 year old marriage he beat her up with not only fists but a chair on top. Now her mind told her to try the insulting the next time he gets drunk. She called her mum and the only comment she heard was...come home. But she loved him. Will she wait till he does the ultimate or till she kills him in self defence? Sometimes to leave is more than just a choice, it is to keep yourself alive. Alive and happy is the key word...Learn to always be happy in your relationship then you will know whether you want to leave or not. Hmmm, I rest my case on this issue!

When is it time to leave?

When is it time to leave a relationship? Who will tell you, and how would you know? Are there signs...what really would you need to know?
Simple, man and woman can be unpredictable...but they still show signs. Sometimes the person at fault doesnt know and wonders why the other person in the relationship leaves. Why wont I leave when all you care about is yourself, your mum, your brother or who ever? Leaving tells the other person that its time to make a change. The logic, the time to leave is not when it is enough but the time to make a change that would give you a comfortable state of mind...
Well maybe I tell a story another time on this but remember, time to make a change that should alter the whole relationship and force the other person to think...learn to do it sometimes with little pain, other times with all pain but never regret it...bad advice?Next time will talk