When Relationship Turn to Betting Games! Part 1

Slowly, slowly, some relationships are no longer a thing of choice for some. It is just a matter of anything that goes. She wants me, she wants me not... he wants me, he wants me. Sometimes, we offend the other and then we think of what to expect. Would he lash out at me and maybe today he is going to be different. Maybe his boss wouldn't make him feel bad. When relationships turn to the stage where you are not sure he or she wants you or not, it has just turned to a betting game. And most times betting games lose. Winning is not meant to be in your favour but the person who puts the game up in the first place. So what do we do about it? Obviously, if you have reached the stage of games, it means the other person may not want you in their lives again. That's one point. Next is to find out where you stand, or make the person realize the stage he or she is putting you in. Next post we would continue on what else to try.