The Ego of a Man

Listen lady, have you ever been raped before? think of it. Now if you harass and demean a man's ego is just like doing that to him and men can react differently to such. A man may beat you up to let you know you hurt his ego, another may leave your house, another may never talk to you...the key idea is managing the Ego of a man. If you can do it, the world of the men is yours, to begin with right from time, women could do it just that these days humility has been replaced and somethings else. Ego of men differ so be careful, food is good for many but for some, a single touch on his head and...kabol. Whatever, I wish we will study this ego thing one day, but till then be careful my MUCHACHA

Is it lost love?

Yeah, I just remembered I had a friend who just stopped calling me and made me feel good only when I called. Of course she is male sorry female. So I want to go a little step ahead by visiting her even though we stay like 985km apart. Then I got beaten up and lost my phone. I got my number back, but she was the type that hardly ever called so I don't even know her number by heart and imagine if she will ever call. I have tried many ways to get her number back to no avail. I did like but the fact that someone that calls you almost everyday or beeps your phone reduces to almost a minimum and then...Don't it mean I should let go, like most things I do sometimes or I should continue to search for her when right now there is someone that is showing a lot of interest in me a man!? I don't know but say this to Rose when you see her, is it lost love you will come after? don't worry...somewhere, somehow, if i don't wait then someone would be waiting...But seriously it our love lost

What are all men and women after?

It's being long since i came here but of course I have been practicalizing love and tenets...Yes, the last two months became so hot that I had to ask my self, what did I want whether from the relationship I was pretending to have or from Life itself. With the death of my Uncle Mr.Charles Ayede it became more paramount. Why did I want to have a relationship with a woman and why them too? Intensive work and research told got me some funny answers. Some say sex, love, companionship, just for the fun of it and the most craziest I heard some just because everyone is doing it or they just dont know. Whatever it is, I take companionship and ...whatever don't ask the second one. So I write this to my new friend who was my enemy before - Juliana, I just love being around you and hope whatever it is, you would be my friend for a long time to come even if we don't understand reasons for ...

The New Resolution

Yes, I have my new resolution not to keep resolutions...kiddin but thats what many people do in a relationship. they forget that as the new year begins, its bye bye to bad habits. Those things that the ladies or the guys hate...and which point you must reach or compromise with your friend or let it end...I think. Anyway everybody has been living with him or herself without giving themselves up so please give another chance to your fellow guy. Its a new year, a new time, and a new position. See you in the months ahead

Why do we always return back?

I read a story on Lady Gaga who on www.azcentral.com, it was shocking. She actually went back to a guy (Luc Carl)who dumped her in very funny circumstances. Strangely, he only heard she was around looking for him and he dropped the Girl, he had been dating. The abandoned lady didn't fret (why would she?). But Gaga's mother did complain. Because they had a nasty break up. I am reporting this as I saw this but see...What will happen if a man who can simply break up with a Lady because he heard a lost love came around. Is it that he regrets the long time off or he wants somethings else this time? I don't know but its time to always reconsider things before you break up. It's not nice to stay with a person who breaks up anytime he wants...or...any way, Luc! You better not break her heart this time...or you will be my next case study

What is wrong with him?

Every sign is there that he loves you, but he has never proposed to you to be his girl or wife. One of the two, well, people i met like to say that he is afraid that is why! But someone just let me on the truth, check it... it is not fear, it is simply because he is not serious, doesn't want to commit. Why? Because he doesn't know what the future holds and doesn't want that to happen. So it looks like fear. In some cases it may be that he is actually look out for some other options, so now what do you do to such a person? I don't not but lets try this...Find ways to corner him and ask him indirect questions if you want him to proceed with you. Questions like...why is that Guys are always afraid to commit to a fine lady when they see another they like...or...DO you like me?(dont try this, you will freak him out if it fear that is bothering him). Whatever, Just know that the ways I have mentioned may not work but then...lets have fun. See you

What is this name or is it game?

A Lady I once met told me this...I hope you are not interested in the name, I am in for the game alone. Well whatever the game is i wont say but how can we humans call Love a name? Then what do you call sex and love put together?
Well, I realized one thing...when you enter a relationship it is good once in a while to know whether you people are playing the game or you are in for the name and decide whether it is what you want.
Imagine asking the question - what am I to you? Go ask your girl or guy and find out what he or she will say, maybe you might then know if it is a game you are playing or love is the name. Hmm wait till I find out whether its a game she prefers or what?